Shit is bananas.

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

I just moved out of fiance's cause I'm a money grubbing whore, I treat him like shit, and I care about my friends more than our relationship (last time I saw a friend was a month ago, and he came with). He actually packed my shit for me, took it downstairs, and told me to get out of his life. When I started taking it out to the car he started crying hysterically and begging for me to stay. When I told him I would, he got a fucking attitude, so I went on packing, and then he was like "OH I SEE HOW MUCH YOU CARE ABOUT THIS RELATIONSHIP. I NEVER TOLD YOU TO LEAVE, THIS IS YOUR DECISION. *emoemo* I'M GONNA GO RUN MY BIKE INTO A WALL. START READING THE OBITUARIES".

He's not blowing up my phone, which is completely out of character. Maybe he's dead already.

Shame. He was a cool dude till his brains fell out his ass. I'm gonna have to go back there tomorrow to get my pumpkin. I'm serious about this carving contest shit.

[ivankay]

good riddance. Sounds like a lot of WTF's must have been going off in your brain during this relationship. Shouldn't have to deal with that emotional retardation in a person you going to marry.

[captncrzy]

He sounds like a major homo. You're better off.

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

good riddance. Sounds like a lot of WTF's must have been going off in your brain during this relationship. Shouldn't have to deal with that emotional retardation in a person you going to marry.

He has some serious diagnosed psychological issues. His shrink actually told him that statistically he's not likely to make it to 30. I'm an extremely rational, and patient person, but seriously, making excuses for him is getting old. I'm really bummed though. It's 4am, and I have work tomorrow.

[ivankay]

Of course you're going to be bummed. i couldn't imagine you would get to the point of accepting a marragie proposal unless you had love for the guy. Keep strong and do what's best for you. Don't get back with him based on pity. Keep a journal of what's going on with you and refer back to it in moments of weakness. There's a crazy girl out there for him that will thrive on the emotional unstability. He needs to find her.

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

Of course you're going to be bummed. i couldn't imagine you would get to the point of accepting a marragie proposal unless you had love for the guy. Keep strong and do what's best for you. Don't get back with him based on pity. Keep a journal of what's going on with you and refer back to it in moments of weakness. There's a crazy girl out there for him that will thrive on the emotional unstability. He needs to find her.

Oh he found her alright. Didn't work out for them either.

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

It probably wouldn't bum me out so much if I honestly believed that there are interesting, sensitive, and attractive dudes out there.

Oh well, atleast now I can stop applying at fucking bed bath and beyonds, and get a job putting makeup on corpses.
He said it was gross, so I didn't do it, but I think I want to. I'd make more money than a prostitute, and I wouldn't have to work with people. Well not ones that talk anyway.

[ivankay]

Oh he found her alright. Didn't work out for them either.



Then it's the either the loner life or a few girls that he can mentally abuse before he kicks the bucket. Too bad for the girls.


Take your time. Make yourself happy. Someone will come along that will fit.

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

Then it's the either the loner life or a few girls that he can mentally abuse before he kicks the bucket. Too bad for the girls.

They'll line up for it too. He's really good looking. If there is a god, he's certainly not very funny.

[ivankay]

i always thought God was hysterical.

Lesson learned about the attracive cover containing a great book. If you do start dating another Adonis, make sure your personalities click and he is cool.

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

i always thought God was hysterical.

Lesson learned about the attracive cover containing a great book. If you do start dating another Adonis, make sure your personalities click and he is cool.

This is really the first one. I have had some butt-ugly boyfriends, but they've all fucked me over too.

I used to know this guy a long time ago when we were friends and I never found him attractive. Everyone else did, but I just didn't see my friends like that. He was really cool, and when we actually started seeing eachother he was like the most perfect guy you could ever imagine in every possible way. So he was all awesome until I got comfortable, and then he went all batshitsoup eagledicksandwich on me.

[ivankay]

damn. Hopefully you found out in a short period of time.

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

damn. Hopefully you found out in a short period of time.

I noticed it after 3 months, but it wasn't anything major back then. It's been building up, and now at 4 days to a year it's just to the point of too utterly ridiculous to even try to remedy.

[ivankay]

Oh, so the friend is the fiance. i thought these were 2 seperate relationships.

i should be one to talk about bailing out when the signs display themselves. i have been in bad realtionships where i should have ended them a whole lot sooner when the signs were more than obvious. i won't tolerate my misery in a realtionship ever again (if you see me doing that, knock me down). Being alone and reasonably chill is way better than being miserable in a relationship.

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

That's easy enough to say, but love and addiction display the same symptoms. Being sober and reasonably chill is way better than being a crackhead, but there are still a lot of crackheads out there.

[ivankay]

True dat. Be strong. And go to bed, you got werk (which can be quite helpful in break ups...keeps your mind off shit).

[bug on your lip]

He has some serious diagnosed psychological issues. His shrink actually told him that statistically he's not likely to make it to 30.

i thought for sure you were going to finish this thought with "....but he's really hot !!"

[bug on your lip]

They'll line up for it too. He's really good looking. If there is a god, he's certainly not very funny.

oh my bad



you did

[gaypalmsprings]

He sounds like a major homo. You're better off.

Homo's are nice. Get with it.

Men - you can't live with them, and you can't live without them. They are such pigs. And that's the best part!

[gaypalmsprings]

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[marooko]

Shame. He was a cool dude till his brains fell out his ass. I'm gonna have to go back there tomorrow to get my pumpkin. I'm serious about this carving contest shit.

this is fucking hilarious.

[Mr. Dylanja]

Dude's a loser Uni, he plays WOW for Christ's sakes! That still sucks tho, hope you pull thru alright. Go to HARD and dance your ass off, you'll feel great and probably meet a douchebag there!! Unless of course it a coveted boardie :)

[frozen pilgrim]

oh lord, he was a WOWer? that's the trump card for me right there. there are people out there who genuinely have emotional problems who want to get better, and function in society, and be good to those they love, and then there's people with self-exacerbated emotional problems who play world of warcraft.

[amyzzz]

There's a crazy girl out there for him that will thrive on the emotional unstability. He needs to find her.
hahaha, that's my relationship in a nutshell. Well, not really, but sorta.

[locachica73]

My son plays world of warcraft, does that mean i should take him to a psychiatrist?

[marooko]

no. it means you should get him a hooker before its too late.

[RotationSlimWang]

Yeah, weren't you the twerp with the fucking ridiculous story of engagement only like a week ago?

[locachica73]

Oh trust me, he doesn't need a hooker, unfortunatly I know he has already crossed that line because he stole my condoms to do so. At least I know hes safe though. ugh

Note to self, never get engaged to crazy people.

[Astrid]

hmm well i would say that usually long term relationships like that have a very high getting back together rate. but it seems as if you want this dude to fuck off and die....


so i shall say cheers. the ability to accept change is a truly rare and exceptional talent.

[frozen pilgrim]

Oh trust me, he doesn't need a hooker, unfortunatly I know he has already crossed that line because he stole my condoms to do so. At least I know hes safe though. ugh

Note to self, never get engaged to crazy people.

a teenage son taking initiative and practicing safe sex is probably the best thing you can hope for as a parent next to straight As.
if he's playing WoW but still exercises, has friends that DON'T play WoW, and is getting laid (and doing it responsibly), you've got nothing to worry about

[allyjoy]

My son plays world of warcraft, does that mean i should take him to a psychiatrist?

yes

[locachica73]

He is a very active kid, the only time he plays WoW is when he is grounded. And I do agree, even though he causes me much stress I would rather have kids that are social, enjoy the outside and healthy then the kids I meet who never want to leave the house, are overweight, afraid of thier own shadow and have no social skills whatsovever.

[locachica73]

yes

luckily i have one on speed dial... :)

[Pixiessp]

Oh trust me, he doesn't need a hooker, unfortunatly I know he has already crossed that line because he stole my condoms to do so. At least I know hes safe though. ugh

Note to self, never get engaged to crazy people.

a note that i surely should have written to myself in 2000.
would have avoided a very strange relationship.

[Astrid]

i think its hilarious you are all being so degrading to wow.

is being a message board junkie really SO different? i understand that wow players spend even more time playing then most people do on boards and such, but i dont see how it can be seen as so much more pathetic...

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

Yeah, weren't you the twerp with the fucking ridiculous story of engagement only like a week ago?

Yeah. You wanna fight?

[locachica73]

We have all had that relationship at some point I think. Usually the one hardest to get out of. Especially women because we always feel like we can fix people. I have learned over the years, there is just no fixing crazy.

[CalmerThanYou]

You just need a good romping to clear the mind.








sorry to hear, that sucks.

[Pixiessp]

Amen Loca

[locachica73]

i think its hilarious you are all being so degrading to wow.

is being a message board junkie really SO different? i understand that wow players spend even more time playing then most people do on boards and such, but i dont see how it can be seen as so much more pathetic...

i have never played it or really know much about it. but in my mind I am comparing it to Dungeons and Dragons... Another game I have never played, but I have met guys that play it and let me just say.... wow.

[RotationSlimWang]

Yeah. You wanna fight?

Pretty much. Are you sure none of these problems are actually related to you being ugly?

In other words, tits or GTFO

[Pixiessp]

[QUOTE=CalmerThanYou;794297]You just need a good romping to clear the mind.








sorry to hear, that sucks.[/QUOTE



a good rogering.

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

He just called me from a payphone and started crying again, begging me to move back in. Poor kid.

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

Pretty much. Are you sure none of these problems are actually related to you being ugly?

In other words, tits or GTFO

Are you serious? I'm far from ugly.

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[allyjoy]

He just called me from a payphone and started crying again, begging me to move back in. Poor kid.

run for the hills. seriously. there are some things love cannot conquer.

[Mr. Dylanja]

Yeah, weren't you the twerp with the fucking ridiculous story of engagement only like a week ago?

Let's not forget that the proposal was made over the phone while he was playing WOW...

[chairmenmeow47]

Let's not forget that the proposal was made over the phone while he was playing WOW...

hope you're taking notes, randy :thu

and that bird is adorable.

[SFChrissy]

do these kinds of relationships really ever end??? I mean even though you guys aren't together will you still be the one that fucked him up and will he think about you on a regular basis vice versa???

[Mr. Dylanja]

lol! Randy-Romeo!

[bug on your lip]

hope you're taking notes, randy :thu

and that bird is adorable.

yeah..but Unicorns guy was mental but hot

[frozen pilgrim]

i think its hilarious you are all being so degrading to wow.

is being a message board junkie really SO different? i understand that wow players spend even more time playing then most people do on boards and such, but i dont see how it can be seen as so much more pathetic...

I don't pay $15 a month to post on here D:

also, for what it costs to play wow, without buying extras, you can rent two tech 12s and a DJ mixer. IMO a slightly less brain-ruining and creativity-devoid pastime than wow.

[locachica73]

I have the gwen stefani song going through my head right now thanks to this thread. bleh.

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

do these kinds of relationships really ever end??? I mean even though you guys aren't together will you still be the one that fucked him up and will he think about you on a regular basis vice versa???

If we really manage to stay apart this time, I'm sure he will be haunted by this forever because he's crazy, and I'm his first love.
I really hope I manage a bit easier. Breakups aren't THAT bad for me. I usually find a way to stay busy until I forget about it.

I dunno though, I can see that the healthy thing would be to just walk away, but it's really, really, really difficult. I just wanna get some space, and figure things out right now. I told him we could talk when I go there to get my pumpkin, and cat pills, but I dunno how much talk is gonna do. We've had great talks before, just to go back to the same shit, so I really think the absolute most I'm going to do for him, is just stay in contact, and see if he can learn to control himself better.

[PotVsKtl]

Shut the fuck up you talentless corpse.

[locachica73]

I am going to guess your in your early 20's... Give it a couple years and then you will be a little more willing to walk away from the crazy.

[mattpach]

Unicorn I've been through a similar situation. Trust me staying in contact is the hardest thing to do. It seems like the right thing to do but in the end its going to make things much more difficult. People like this tend not to learn to control themselves but instead let themselves get so bad you feel sorry for them. Then they lure you back in and make your life a living hell until you finally have to walk away. My experience was that I had to cut the person off completely and move on for my sake and her sake.

If he is trying to control himself then that's really good but if you don't see anything changing then do what is best for you.

[Astrid]

the best thing you can do for yourself and for him is to give him time to grow the fuck up. hes obviously still trapped in boy-mode. i have yet to find a male who isnt...but im hoping that this is just a horribly unfortunate age for men. (im assuming he is in earliesh twenties?)

if you really care about him, stay friends, perhaps one day he will grow into the man that the good part of him suggest he is capable of being.

[CalmerThanYou]

unicorn - How old are you?

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

Unicorn I've been through a similar situation. Trust me staying in contact is the hardest thing to do. It seems like the right thing to do but in the end its going to make things much more difficult. People like this tend not to learn to control themselves but instead let themselves get so bad you feel sorry for them. Then they lure you back in and make your life a living hell until you finally have to walk away. My experience was that I had to cut the person off completely and move on for my sake and her sake.

If he is trying to control himself then that's really good but if you don't see anything changing then do what is best for you.

I'm really not swayed by the feeling sorry for him thing. Believe me, him crying, and talking about suicide doesn't give me any second thoughts about staying. The good times we've had together do.

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

the best thing you can do for yourself and for him is to give him time to grow the fuck up. hes obviously still trapped in boy-mode. i have yet to find a male who isnt...but im hoping that this is just a horribly unfortunate age for men. (im assuming he is in earliesh twenties?)

if you really care about him, stay friends, perhaps one day he will grow into the man that the good part of him suggest he is capable of being.

I dunno if we could really be just friends. It would be too easy to get back together.

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

unicorn - How old are you?

20. Why?

[Jon Blazed]

I just moved out of fiance's cause I'm a money grubbing whore, I treat him like shit, and I care about my friends more than our relationship (last time I saw a friend was a month ago, and he came with). He actually packed my shit for me, took it downstairs, and told me to get out of his life. When I started taking it out to the car he started crying hysterically and begging for me to stay. When I told him I would, he got a fucking attitude, so I went on packing, and then he was like "OH I SEE HOW MUCH YOU CARE ABOUT THIS RELATIONSHIP. I NEVER TOLD YOU TO LEAVE, THIS IS YOUR DECISION. *emoemo* I'M GONNA GO RUN MY BIKE INTO A WALL. START READING THE OBITUARIES".

He's not blowing up my phone, which is completely out of character. Maybe he's dead already.

Shame. He was a cool dude till his brains fell out his ass. I'm gonna have to go back there tomorrow to get my pumpkin. I'm serious about this carving contest shit.

I love you. What are going to do with the ring?

[PotVsKtl]

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[UnicornsForBreakfast]

I love you. What are going to do with the ring?

I'm still wearing it. Not wearing it feels weird, and just brings that shit to my attention, and I don't need to be thinking about it at work today.
I suppose when and if I do 100% sever ties with crazyface, I'll put it away for a year or two, and then just wear it as any other piece of jewelry I own (on my other hand). I'd sell it, but I'd be lucky to get even a third of its value, and that's kindof a waste.

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

Pot, if this thread is not to your liking, you can just hrm...stop reading it?

[Astrid]

you dont have to be friends right away. and you dont have to be besty buds. its ridiculously fucking difficult. i live 300 miles away from my ex, and we stay very close friends, but when i do see him its impossible to not want to be with him, even though its obviously fucked.

i just personally feel that i would rather keep him in my life, even though its retarded, than lose someone that is very important to me.

but in a way i can agree with what matt said as well. i definitely had to cut off all fucking ties with my deranged ex. some people arent capable of growing up, and they just become more and more unhinged.

[ivankay]

If we really manage to stay apart this time, I'm sure he will be haunted by this forever because he's crazy, and I'm his first love.
I really hope I manage a bit easier. Breakups aren't THAT bad for me. I usually find a way to stay busy until I forget about it.

I dunno though, I can see that the healthy thing would be to just walk away, but it's really, really, really difficult. I just wanna get some space, and figure things out right now. I told him we could talk when I go there to get my pumpkin, and cat pills, but I dunno how much talk is gonna do. We've had great talks before, just to go back to the same shit, so I really think the absolute most I'm going to do for him, is just stay in contact, and see if he can learn to control himself better.

You sound like you're setting up a reconciliation. Don't. Get your stuff (with a friend or family member if you can...not necessarily for protection as much as to let him know this is serious). Tell him you will contact him when you want to discuss things. Request he not contact you until then. Do that after you are a little bit more removed from the bullshit of last night. Don't have sex with him.

Give him the ring back.

[CalmerThanYou]

20. Why?

Because you're young, you still have lots to learn. Just chalk this up as a learning experience and move on...

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

you dont have to be friends right away. and you dont have to be besty buds. its ridiculously fucking difficult. i live 300 miles away from my ex, and we stay very close friends, but when i do see him its impossible to not want to be with him, even though its obviously fucked.

i just personally feel that i would rather keep him in my life, even though its retarded, than lose someone that is very important to me.

but in a way i can agree with what matt said as well. i definitely had to cut off all fucking ties with my deranged ex. some people arent capable of growing up, and they just become more and more unhinged.


Doesn't the fact that you still want to be with him when you're together hold you back from making emotional investments with other people?

[karecares]

Shame. He was a cool dude till his brains fell out his ass. I'm gonna have to go back there tomorrow to get my pumpkin. I'm serious about this carving contest shit.



if u want things to end, then is getting a pumpkin is really that high on your list of priorities?
seeing a bit of a contradiction in the two statements

[TomAz]

You sound like you setting up a reconciliation. Don't. Get your stuff (with a friend or family member if you can...not necessarily for protection as much as to let him know this is serious). Tell him you will contact him when you want to discuss things. Request he not contact you until then. Do that after you are a little bit more removed from the bullshit of last night. Don't have sex with him.

Give him the ring back.

good advice right there.

to which I add: when you get a new boyfriend, get one with actual testicles this time.

[mattpach]

Since it sounds like he acts like a boy then treat him like one. When he is acting bad distance yourself from him and if he shows you that he is trying to control himself
then be there for him.
Basically reward good behavior discipline bad behavior.
Just you need to figure out if he is capable of controlling himself or are you just wasting time?


And Astrid makes a great point I think it is always ideal to keep close friends in your life, and it maybe hard to just be friends but if that's what you want then go for it.
Also you need to figure out if he is okay with that.

[rage patton]

Im sorry it didn't work out for you Unicorn :(

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

You sound like you setting up a reconciliation. Don't. Get your stuff (with a friend or family member if you can...not necessarily for protection as much as to let him know this is serious). Tell him you will contact him when you want to discuss things. Request he not contact you until then. Do that after you are a little bit more removed from the bullshit of last night. Don't have sex with him.

Give him the ring back.

I'm just picking up a pumpkin, and talking to him. I'm not staying the night, having sex with him, or agreeing to anything. I just don't think coming in, grabbing my things and leaving is very civil. I'm not planning on having the long, serious discussion today anyway. If it starts heading in that direction, I'll make an excuse, and leave.

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

Shame. He was a cool dude till his brains fell out his ass. I'm gonna have to go back there tomorrow to get my pumpkin. I'm serious about this carving contest shit.



if u want things to end, then is getting a pumpkin is really that high on your list of priorities?
seeing a bit of a contradiction in the two statements

My cat's pills are still over there, so I have to go anyway. If I'm going anyway, I'll be damned if I leave my pumpkin behind.

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

Im sorry it didn't work out for you Unicorn :(


S'ok. Something's bound to work out eventually.

[locachica73]

Because you're young, you still have lots to learn. Just chalk this up as a learning experience and move on...

Yes but at that age as women we still think with our hearts and not our brains. And at that age men think with their heads and not thier brains. It makes chaulking anything up to a learning experience difficult.

[CalmerThanYou]

I'm just picking up a pumpkin, and talking to him. I'm not staying the night, having sex with him, or agreeing to anything.
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[Astrid]

Doesn't the fact that you still want to be with him when you're together hold you back from making emotional investments with other people?

hahahhaha. yes. its an extremely complicated situation. but in reality it isnt. we cant be together. i still love him. when i see him he makes me retarded. but i dont really mind so much right now...its only been a little over a month, and i dont really care if im with anyone else right now. one day i will be able to simply say FUCK IT. and that will be a good day.

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

Yes but at that age as women we still think with our hearts and not our brains. And at that age men think with their heads and not thier brains. It makes chaulking anything up to a learning experience difficult.

Blargh. So true.

[locachica73]

Although sometimes I miss those days... Now I am a cynical old broad that doesn't believe in happily ever after and has a steel gate around my heart so enjoy it while you can.

[marooko]

you gonna take your ice trays too?

[M Sparks]

I just moved out of fiance's cause I'm a money grubbing whore, I treat him like shit, and I care about my friends more than our relationship

QFT















(totally kidding, but that was just too easy)

[chairmenmeow47]

give back the ring

[marooko]

why? its hers.

[Pixiessp]

Take a deep breath Unicorn. You will come out of this ok in the long run.

[chairmenmeow47]

why? its hers.

it is a gift contingent upon the condition of marriage. in some states, the man can sue the woman for the ring and win.

it's also tacky. unless the guy leaves you with a bunch of bills or did something really, really horrible, you should always give back the ring, IMO. that guy probably spent some money on that with the hopes of getting married, it's not right to keep it if you don't want to marry the guy.

i gave back a diamond bracelet after my ex cheated on me. i just knew i'd never be able to look at it without getting sad. hell, i even gave back a telescope another boyfriend got me when i broke up with him because it was so expensive, i didn't feel right keeping it. but that's just me...

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

give back the ring

I'd love to, but you see, I bought him one too, and it's worth the same amount. He took a loan out on it, so we can't really exchange rings right now, and wtf would i do with a dude's ring anyway?

[Pixiessp]

I gave back my ring and it was a doozy. that was one beautiful ring.

[menikmati]

my dad stole my mom's wedding ring after they had been divorced for a while and pawned it.

[locachica73]

it is a gift contingent upon the condition of marriage. in some states, the man can sue the woman for the ring and win.

it's also tacky. unless the guy leaves you with a bunch of bills or did something really, really horrible, you should always give back the ring, IMO. that guy probably spent some money on that with the hopes of getting married, it's not right to keep it if you don't want to marry the guy.

i gave back a diamond bracelet after my ex cheated on me. i just knew i'd never be able to look at it without getting sad. hell, i even gave back a telescope another boyfriend got me when i broke up with him because it was so expensive, i didn't feel right keeping it. but that's just me...

I totally agree, although men, please note, if a girl gives you back an engagement ring please do not recycle it with a new girl. That is just tacky and wrong, and bad mojo to boot.

[chairmenmeow47]

I'd love to, but you see, I bought him one too, and it's worth the same amount. He took a loan out on it, so we can't really exchange rings right now, and wtf would i do with a dude's ring anyway?

if you both bought rings then it doesn't really matter. i didn't realize people were giving guys engagement rings these days. interesting.

my dad stole my mom's wedding ring after they had been divorced for a while and pawned it.

that is horrible. a friend in high school's dad killed himself. the mother was a meth addict at the time and pawned his wedding ring and tried to blame it on my friend and me. it was fucking heart breaking.

[menikmati]

yeah, stealing/pawning it was an awful thing to do...my family is fucked up

[chairmenmeow47]

but at least you're awesome <3

[locachica73]

My dad not only stole and pawned my mothers rings but also her mothers rings that had been left to my mother when she died. He was addicted to prescription drugs at the time. sick sad world.

[bug on your lip]

i get the feeling this thread is a waste of time

i'm also not buying the "i need to go over there to get my pumpkin" line

[locachica73]

When I was 20 my ex and father of my kids broke out my car window. After a week of not speaking to him I went back to have him replace my window... He played all sweet and nice and pulled the "BUT I LOVE YOU" card, I got back with him and he ended up doing alot worse then breaking my window down the road. So my advice will be not to go back... but we all know that at 20 we have to learn our own lessons and will never take advice of others.

[amyzzz]

I've never had to deal with the giving-the-ring-back situation. No one before my current man ever gave me any jewelry.

[garrett222]

it is a gift contingent upon the condition of marriage. in some states, the man can sue the woman for the ring and win.

it's also tacky. unless the guy leaves you with a bunch of bills or did something really, really horrible, you should always give back the ring, IMO. that guy probably spent some money on that with the hopes of getting married, it's not right to keep it if you don't want to marry the guy.

i gave back a diamond bracelet after my ex cheated on me. i just knew i'd never be able to look at it without getting sad. hell, i even gave back a telescope another boyfriend got me when i broke up with him because it was so expensive, i didn't feel right keeping it. but that's just me...

he uses that telescope to spy on u. i heardz.

[amyzzz]

he uses that telescope to spy on u. i heardz.
What are you, a lolcat caption?

[garrett222]

yeah that's right.

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

my dad stole my mom's wedding ring after they had been divorced for a while and pawned it.

Haha, my dad too. Except he stole a whole lot of other things too. Like the matress. :/

[humanoid]

Moral of the story
don't be thinking about marrying anyone when you're 20 ...especially emotionally unstable computer game addicts who asked you to marry them while playing World of Warcraft...sorry for your difficult situation, but it is best for you in the long run, and you probably know that

[garrett222]

the key with the engagement ring is when it was given. If it was on a holiday like valentines day or xmas etc. then he wont win a law suit to get it back because it is seen as a holiday present. Always give the ring on a random day.

[SFChrissy]

20's are some of the most precious years in someone's life...don't waste them on insecure bullshit...take a deep breath and jump into life with both feet...dude's like this kill and inhibit the free spirits of beautiful vibrant women!!!

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

i get the feeling this thread is a waste of time

i'm also not buying the "i need to go over there to get my pumpkin" line

I could have sworn I replied to that first "not buying the "i need to go over there to get my pumpkin" line" with "I have to go back anyway to pick up my cat's medication."

[humanoid]

20's are some of the most precious years in someone's life...don't waste them on insecure bullshit...take a deep breath and jump into life with both feet...dude's like this kill and inhibit the free spirits of beautiful vibrant women!!!

it goes both ways...there are toxic personalities of both genders to avoid at all costs

[locachica73]

Moral of the story
don't be thinking about marrying anyone when you're 20 ...

QFT!!!

Don't settle down till at least 25, preferably 30. Or you end up like me, going through your 20's in your 30's when your body can't truly handle it, although your pocket book is much more capable in your 30's.

[SFChrissy]

it goes both ways...there are toxic personalities of both genders to avoid at all costs
Of course but I've come accross more guarded women then I have guys...I love being solo but I'm guarded and don't want to subject myself to the bullshit I endured with my ex...EVER!!!

[marooko]

it is a gift contingent upon the condition of marriage. in some states, the man can sue the woman for the ring and win.

it's also tacky. unless the guy leaves you with a bunch of bills or did something really, really horrible, you should always give back the ring, IMO. that guy probably spent some money on that with the hopes of getting married, it's not right to keep it if you don't want to marry the guy.

i gave back a diamond bracelet after my ex cheated on me. i just knew i'd never be able to look at it without getting sad. hell, i even gave back a telescope another boyfriend got me when i broke up with him because it was so expensive, i didn't feel right keeping it. but that's just me...

thats very kind of you.

as a guy, considering the money, i would like it back also. i would never expect it back though, it was given. im sure she had the intention of marrying him when she received it, but he kicked her out.

[boarderwoozel3]

Holla

http://carpefactum.typepad.com/photos/uncategorized/2008/01/27/dr_phil.jpg

[Astrid]

the key with the engagement ring is when it was given. If it was on a holiday like valentines day or xmas etc. then he wont win a law suit to get it back because it is seen as a holiday present. Always give the ring on a random day.
thats some fucked up bullshit....our legal system is utterly nonsense.

[CalmerThanYou]

someone at my work pawned her wedding ring when she divorced and bought a couch with it. now its in my other friends house.

[locachica73]

I never got a ring to pawn, but I did sell our house and got to keep all the profit as long as I let him take his truck with him.

[chairmenmeow47]

the two serious proposals i received didn't have rings. one was a spur of the moment trip to vegas on my 18th birthday though. the other was just an idiot without a ring, lol. i think the ring is important because if nothing else, it shows that you put some time and thought to the question.

[locachica73]

my question came over several shots of goldschlager (which I still to this day won't drink) so no thought involved at all. lol

[allyjoy]

classy!

[CalmerThanYou]

THIS SHIT IS BANANAS!!!!!!!!!

http://i113.photobucket.com/albums/n211/mbibb01/retard_ninja.jpg

[locachica73]

Hell yeah, cuz that's how I roll. But we were married for 8 years, and most of them were pretty happy years, up until the last year. I am just not a moonlight and roses kinda girl.

[CalmerThanYou]

are you a punch in the gut and salt in the eyes type of chick?

[locachica73]

depends, who am I punching in the gut?

[CalmerThanYou]

youre getting punched in the gut

[locachica73]

i fight back, and much dirtier. so I wouldn't recommend that to anyone. I am more the drink a beer, shoot some pool and do a shot kinda girl. so the happy medium between moonlight/roses and gut punching/salt in the eyes.

[faxman75]

Fuck the ring. I'm lucky my ex didn't want diamonds and carrots and all that shit. I purchased a nice saphire engagement ring. It was about $180 at JC Penny I think. I'm classy like that. She fucking loved it. Then we started planning all that wedding bullshit. All our money was combined from very early on anyway. So when the wedding rings were purchased she picked out some cool titanium rings and purchased those. I think it was a total of another $400 or something. Whatever. We broke up, I got my wedding ring. She kept hers and the engagement ring. Why the fuck would I want that shit back anyway? I would prefer a refund on all the financing I did for her family and the $27 spent at the sex shop and $137 on the hotel room from when she cheated on me while I was putting her kids to sleep.

....now if I could only go off like this in person instead of a random rant on a message board. Bitter indeed. :)

[shakermaker113]

...and the $27 spent at the sex shop and $137 on the hotel room from when she cheated on me while I was putting her kids to sleep...

ouch. I'd be bitter too.

[locachica73]

NEVER COMBINE MONEY!!!! What's mine is mine, what's his is his. Fuck that.

[amyzzz]

Whoa, Shaker, I thought faxman said that. Your quote says Astrid said that.

[chairmenmeow47]

engagement/wedding rings don't have to be expensive at all, i'm just saying the act of going out, buying a ring and THEN asking shows that you put some thought into it and aren't just talking out your ass.

also, i was talking about returning engagement rings. wedding rings are a different story all together.

and yes, never combine money. learned THAT one the hard way.

[CalmerThanYou]

cockring > wedding ring = marriage survival

http://img.alibaba.com/photo/50554455/Magic_Cock_Ring.jpg

[Astrid]

ouch. I'd be bitter too.

:nono
confusion?

[kreutz2112]

I just moved out of fiance's cause I'm a money grubbing whore, I treat him like shit, and I care about my friends more than our relationship (last time I saw a friend was a month ago, and he came with). He actually packed my shit for me, took it downstairs, and told me to get out of his life. When I started taking it out to the car he started crying hysterically and begging for me to stay. When I told him I would, he got a fucking attitude, so I went on packing, and then he was like "OH I SEE HOW MUCH YOU CARE ABOUT THIS RELATIONSHIP. I NEVER TOLD YOU TO LEAVE, THIS IS YOUR DECISION. *emoemo* I'M GONNA GO RUN MY BIKE INTO A WALL. START READING THE OBITUARIES".

He's not blowing up my phone, which is completely out of character. Maybe he's dead already.

Shame. He was a cool dude till his brains fell out his ass. I'm gonna have to go back there tomorrow to get my pumpkin. I'm serious about this carving contest shit.

you wanna meet up at coach?

[vinylmartyr]

http://a1.vox.com/6a00cd9708535d4cd500cd9724ba514cd5-500pi

from digg

http://flickr.com/photos/sirberus/2976709620/in/set-72157608401752187/

[shakermaker113]

Whoa, Shaker, I thought faxman said that. Your quote says Astrid said that.

:nono
confusion?

how did THAT happen? sorry, I'll correct it.

[CalmerThanYou]

from digg

http://flickr.com/photos/sirberus/2976709620/in/set-72157608401752187/

OH FUCK! great find...that chick is hot as fuck too.

[shakermaker113]

from digg

http://flickr.com/photos/sirberus/2976709620/in/set-72157608401752187/

lol. dressing up as an internet meme. weird, but funny.

[garrett222]

if you really love her, it will be an expensive ring.

[frozen pilgrim]

yes, because people with low income are incapable of feeling love


I know what you're getting at, but watch the blanket statements :P

how about "if you really love her, it'll be the most expensive ring you can afford"

[Astrid]

how did THAT happen? sorry, I'll correct it.

got astrid on the brain of course.

[CalmerThanYou]

http://www.pedobearpics.com/pedobear/pedo_bear11.jpg

[allyjoy]

Boys, I will let you in on a secret. If she's a money-grubbing whore, she wants you to waste all of your money on her. If the union is about love, a ring may not be the way to signify your commitment. If you know her, you'll know it's right. And Goldschlagger is never a proposal anything.

Loca, I would never say you are not classy... just your ex.

[garrett222]

they always say 3 months salary is standard...but is that 3 months 'gross' or 'net'?

If a teacher made 30k a year, 30,000 / 12 = 2500 x 3 = $7500 for a ring.

If you made 65,000 a year then its $16,250.

That's figured with gross pay. Now..if we're talking 'net'.....then does that mean i can deduct my retirement account money? I think so. So i can save 15% on the ring if i max out my retirement contributions. Plus, there are flexible spending accounts and and Roth IRA deductions I can take through my check.

[kingsblend420]

cockring > wedding ring = marriage survival

http://img.alibaba.com/photo/50554455/Magic_Cock_Ring.jpg

Those things dont work at all. They fucking suck. Only the steel ones that go around under your balls truly work because they cut off the vas deferens for reals. Those rubber things are a joke.

[garrett222]

so now we're saying that if you spend money on a ring then you're with a money grubbing whore? eek. i was just playin

[garrett222]

anything bigger than 2 carats is just showing off.

[amyzzz]

You're overthinking it.

[amyzzz]

Those things dont work at all. They fucking suck. Only the steel ones that go around under your balls truly work because they cut off the vas deferens for reals. Those rubber things are a joke.
What do you mean by "work?"

[TommyboyUNM]

THIS SHIT IS BANANAS!!!!!!!!!

http://i113.photobucket.com/albums/n211/mbibb01/retard_ninja.jpg



I may have found a new avatar. Thanks.

[kingsblend420]

Boys, I will let you in on a secret. If she's a money-grubbing whore, she wants you to waste all of your money on her. If the union is about love, a ring may not be the way to signify your commitment. If you know her, you'll know it's right. And Goldschlagger is never a proposal anything.

Loca, I would never say you are not classy... just your ex.

You're so smart. :lips

[kingsblend420]

I may have found a new avatar. Thanks.

Nah. Old picture is old.

[kingsblend420]

What do you mean by "work?"

As in prevent the ejaculation of spermazoa from the penis.

[chairmenmeow47]

Boys, I will let you in on a secret. If she's a money-grubbing whore, she wants you to waste all of your money on her. If the union is about love, a ring may not be the way to signify your commitment. If you know her, you'll know it's right. And Goldschlagger is never a proposal anything.

i know i also like the idea of the ring so you can just hold it up when people hit on you, lol.

and i bought my first boyfriend a silver band for like $40 in high school. i had it engraved to say "ivy loves you" (the phrase was an inside thing). to this day, he still wears it. at this point, i don't think he can get it off his hand. i saw him in 2003 and i remember he tried cause i wanted to see if the engraving was still in there, but no luck.

so you can do something special, without spending a ton of money. and yeah, it doesn't have to be a ring, but i just think the idea of "setting up" a proposal adds to the seriousness, rather than just randomly asking her when you're helping her clean out her parents attic...

but if a girl wants you to blow money that you don't have on jewelry and a wedding, watch out. definitely. too many women think about the wedding and not the marriage.

[amyzzz]

i know i also like the idea of the ring so you can just hold it up when people hit on you, lol.

I did that once, and the guy proceeded to insult my ring. wtf?

[shakermaker113]

http://weblogs.newsday.com/sports/baseball/mets/blog/rings.jpeg

[chairmenmeow47]

http://weblogs.newsday.com/sports/baseball/mets/blog/rings.jpeg

awwww, for a whale of a wife :)

[garrett222]

i know i also like the idea of the ring so you can just hold it up when people hit on you, lol.

and i bought my first boyfriend a silver band for like $40 in high school. i had it engraved to say "ivy loves you" (the phrase was an inside thing). to this day, he still wears it. at this point, i don't think he can get it off his hand. i saw him in 2003 and i remember he tried cause i wanted to see if the engraving was still in there, but no luck.

so you can do something special, without spending a ton of money. and yeah, it doesn't have to be a ring, but i just think the idea of "setting up" a proposal adds to the seriousness, rather than just randomly asking her when you're helping her clean out her parents attic...

but if a girl wants you to blow money that you don't have on jewelry and a wedding, watch out. definitely. too many women think about the wedding and not the marriage.

I agree that if a girl tells you explicitly that she wants an expensive ring then it's a big red flag...i want to hear from her that she doesn't need any ring at all..and then suprise her...or just talk small and see how she feels about a 1/2 carat ring from zales or something like that...then overdeliver.

[Young blood]

^ this guy giving relationship advice.

[garrett222]

yeah what of it? stop being so annoying and making useless comments like that. Why not contribute some original thoughts.. If you disagree with me, go into detail on what YOU think is best. But you wont.

[amyzzz]

http://imgsrv.fresh1027.com/image/wnew2/UserFiles/Image/artists/alanis.jpg

[locachica73]

Loca, I would never say you are not classy... just your ex.

LOL actually I would not take offense to being called unclassy, I can be a lady when required but I prefer to let my hair down and be me. In fact I had a guy tell me recently that I was very classy and I had to laugh.

As in prevent the ejaculation of spermazoa from the penis.

Actually the rubber ones are more for the females pleasure I think, gotta love the nubs.

I agree that if a girl tells you explicitly that she wants an expensive ring then it's a big red flag...i want to hear from her that she doesn't need any ring at all..and then suprise her...or just talk small and see how she feels about a 1/2 carat ring from zales or something like that...then overdeliver.

I don't wear jewelery at all so I would prefer the money go towards a nice honeymoon trip then a ring I won't want to wear. But I am not like most women.

[rage patton]

My ring for my fiancee wasn't expensive. I hadn't found the "perfect" ring yet. But when Eugene Hutz gave me the OK to propose on stage with Gogol Bordello, perfect could wait. I did have a back up ring in mind, which was pretty damn close to what I wanted anyways, just a lot cheaper. My fiancee told me the other day she doesn't want another more expensive ring, rather, she wants to put the money I would have spent on out ring towards buying a place, or the wedding, or our honeymoon... or something like that.

[amyzzz]

Actually the rubber ones are more for the females pleasure I think, gotta love the nubs.

That's what I was thinking when I saw the pics, which is why I asked what he thought they were for.

[garrett222]

howard stern just got married, and instead of a ring he has her initials tattooed on his ring finger

[locachica73]

and when he gets divorced he can have a void stamp tattoo'ed over it.

[Newro7ic]

OH FUCK! great find...that chick is hot as fuck too.

Her face is broken.

[amyzzz]

He got married again? hahaha

[CalmerThanYou]

I may have found a new avatar. Thanks.

do it

[CalmerThanYou]

Her face is broken.

oh, i didnt even see her face. :/

[faxman75]

He got married again? hahaha


Hey Now.....it's only the 2nd wife. He's very monogomous. The first one was his college sweeheart. They were together 20 years with 3 kids. This one is his live in girlfriend of the past 7 years. Not bad for a guy that can have any stripper, whore, hot chick around. :)

[locachica73]

and considering he is ugly as sin.

[boarderwoozel3]

^

Loaded & semi-famous > Looks

[locachica73]

true, but I also think his personality sucks balls.... and Horrible Personality never wins in my book. No matter if hes loaded or not.

[boarderwoozel3]

Very true. I couldn't put up with someone that irritating either. But I wonder if Tiffany makes ear plugs?

[locachica73]

And actually I don't think I could date a guy who was loaded anyways. I find most to be very pretentious and just not my thing. As long as they have a job and a vehicle I am cool. Nothing too flashy, but again, I am weird.

[garrett222]

you are in the minority. 20 million people love his personality.

[locachica73]

not the first time and won't be the last.

[garrett222]

it says alot about a person who doesn't appreciate the howard stern show.

[locachica73]

hmm that i don't appreciate hatred/stupid humor/male chauvanist pigs who degrade everyone they bring on their show???? yep, I am sure it says alot.

[garrett222]

sense of humor...it's all done in fun. you're apparantly not in on the joke.

[locachica73]

I actually use to listen to him all the time. Then one morning he had a guy come on who was fucking his step daughter and called into the show to get advice. Yes they gave him lots of shit but they had him on the radio for 30 minutes of my commute discussing him boning his step daughter. I never listened again after that.

[garrett222]

i hear you loca. and i'm really really glad you actually listened to the actual show before making your comments. You made a decision and i respect that.

Now, boy i wish i could have heard that segment! that's crazy shit and i bet it made excellent radio. I don't blame him for interviewing someone that was interesting. He's simply interested in good radio, and doesn't always have on guests that he likes or agrees with.

[TomAz]

Testicles. you people are missing the boat. It's all about testicles.

[amyzzz]

Hey Now.....it's only the 2nd wife. He's very monogomous. The first one was his college sweeheart. They were together 20 years with 3 kids. This one is his live in girlfriend of the past 7 years. Not bad for a guy that can have any stripper, whore, hot chick around. :)
I just remember him saying he'd NEVER get married again. I haven't listened since he left regular radio.

[amyzzz]

garrett reminds me of kroq ken.

[TomAz]

amy. let's have Death Race 14K.

[HowToDisappear]

garrett reminds me of kroq ken.

That is precisely what I was thinking...was gonna post it, but you beat me to it.

[CalmerThanYou]

thats been said a ton of times..

[amyzzz]

amy. let's have Death Race 14K.
It took me 5 minutes to figure out wtf you're talking about.

Okay.

[faxman75]

I just remember him saying he'd NEVER get married again. I haven't listened since he left regular radio.


Oh and everyone has given him shit for it. Chris Rock road him the hardest saying "howard, man, I can't believe you're going back to Shawshank". It was nice to see him get a ton of shit for it too because he spent so much time trying to talk people out of marriage. Funny stuff

[garrett222]

That is precisely what I was thinking...was gonna post it, but you beat me to it.

who's kroq ken?

must be a super cool fun dude like me. :)

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

This shit just got bananaser. After we talked, I told him we could do like a trail period kind of thing, where I don't live with him, and he kisses my ass in hopes of us getting back together. Anyway, tonight we dressed up as batman and robin. He was robin, because he's a faggot (no offence gps). He was a giant wet blanket all night, and we got into a bunch of fights, and got drunk. I couldn't sleep, and he crashed on the couch, so I decided to see if I could guess his email password. I did on the first try. I already know I'm gonna get fried with "nerr, you invaded his privacy bullshit" but fuck that. I've never done it before, and I'm glad I did tonight. Anyway, read the entry if you're curious.

http://fuckin-nark.livejournal.com/126244.html

He's STILL emailing me and trying to tell me it was a misunderstanding. "Nerr, I really love you Julie, you just wanted out of the relationship, and now you have a false reason to leave, and hate me. Nerr, nerr. I'm never going to be able to kiss anyone knowing it's not you knowing it's not the way you kissed me. waaah fuckin waaah. I'm going to wear my engagement ring around my neck forever."

After this, I don't want to see a penis for AT LEAST a year. Seriously. Next penis I see...I'm gonna snap it in half.

[gaypalmsprings]

This shit just got bananaser. After we talked, I told him we could do like a trail period kind of thing, where I don't live with him, and he kisses my ass in hopes of us getting back together. Anyway, tonight we dressed up as batman and robin. He was robin, because he's a faggot (no offence gps). He was a giant wet blanket all night, and we got into a bunch of fights, and got drunk. I couldn't sleep, and he crashed on the couch, so I decided to see if I could guess his email password. I did on the first try. I already know I'm gonna get fried with "nerr, you invaded his privacy bullshit" but fuck that. I've never done it before, and I'm glad I did tonight. Anyway, read the entry if you're curious.

http://fuckin-nark.livejournal.com/126244.html

He's STILL emailing me and trying to tell me it was a misunderstanding. "Nerr, I really love you Julie, you just wanted out of the relationship, and now you have a false reason to leave, and hate me. Nerr, nerr. I'm never going to be able to kiss anyone knowing it's not you knowing it's not the way you kissed me. waaah fuckin waaah. I'm going to wear my engagement ring around my neck forever."

After this, I don't want to see a penis for AT LEAST a year. Seriously. Next penis I see...I'm gonna snap it in half.

What part of breaking up don't you understand? Why do you think you can turn a gay guy straight?

[amyzzz]

Yeah, just cut him off completely if he's such a wimp.

[ivankay]

Christ woman, you are asking for your misery. Breaking up means not being together. Not going out on a date. Not hanging out. You had plenty of reasons to not be with this guy before you became the CIA. If you are with someone and they bring out the worst in you, get the fuck out of there. You have been given more signs than you need. All the wack shit you deal with in this relationship is becoming your fault for being there. Cut it off. Do yourself and him that huge favor.

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

Christ woman, you are asking for your misery. Breaking up means not being together. Not going out on a date. Not hanging out. You had plenty of reasons to not be with this guy before you became the CIA. If you are with someone and they bring out the worst in you, get the fuck out of there. You have been given more signs than you need. All the wack shit you deal with in this relationship is becoming your fault for being there. Cut it off. Do yourself and him that huge favor.

Oh believe me, it's over. I know I was an idiot to even think that it could have worked before this. I need to grow some balls, and self-respect. I used to have truckloads of both before I met this prick.

[ivankay]

Understood how those things can get lost. Being alone is not easy in the initial stages. Keep yourself busy and use those that love you for support. If you go back to this dude again, don't write here and just go directly to Jerry Springer.

[gaypalmsprings]

http://www.universohq.com/quadrinhos/2005/imagens/batmangay.jpg

[ivankay]

GPS, you have an incredible gift.

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

Understood how those things can get lost. Being alone is not easy in the initial stages. Keep yourself busy and use those that love you for support. If you go back to this dude again, don't write here and just go directly to Jerry Springer.

I really don't see it being too hard. I'm too pissed off to be sad about it, and that's not going to wear off anytime soon.

[BROKENDOLL]

I just moved out of fiance's cause I'm a money grubbing whore, I treat him like shit, and I care about my friends more than our relationship (last time I saw a friend was a month ago, and he came with). He actually packed my shit for me, took it downstairs, and told me to get out of his life. When I started taking it out to the car he started crying hysterically and begging for me to stay. When I told him I would, he got a fucking attitude, so I went on packing, and then he was like "OH I SEE HOW MUCH YOU CARE ABOUT THIS RELATIONSHIP. I NEVER TOLD YOU TO LEAVE, THIS IS YOUR DECISION. *emoemo* I'M GONNA GO RUN MY BIKE INTO A WALL. START READING THE OBITUARIES".

He's not blowing up my phone, which is completely out of character. Maybe he's dead already.

Shame. He was a cool dude till his brains fell out his ass. I'm gonna have to go back there tomorrow to get my pumpkin. I'm serious about this carving contest shit.

He has some serious diagnosed psychological issues. His shrink actually told him that statistically he's not likely to make it to 30. I'm an extremely rational, and patient person, but seriously, making excuses for him is getting old. I'm really bummed though. It's 4am, and I have work tomorrow.

This shit just got bananaser. After we talked, I told him we could do like a trail period kind of thing, where I don't live with him, and he kisses my ass in hopes of us getting back together. Anyway, tonight we dressed up as batman and robin. He was robin, because he's a faggot (no offence gps). He was a giant wet blanket all night, and we got into a bunch of fights, and got drunk. I couldn't sleep, and he crashed on the couch, so I decided to see if I could guess his email password. I did on the first try. I already know I'm gonna get fried with "nerr, you invaded his privacy bullshit" but fuck that. I've never done it before, and I'm glad I did tonight. Anyway, read the entry if you're curious.

http://fuckin-nark.livejournal.com/126244.html

He's STILL emailing me and trying to tell me it was a misunderstanding. "Nerr, I really love you Julie, you just wanted out of the relationship, and now you have a false reason to leave, and hate me. Nerr, nerr. I'm never going to be able to kiss anyone knowing it's not you knowing it's not the way you kissed me. waaah fuckin waaah. I'm going to wear my engagement ring around my neck forever."

After this, I don't want to see a penis for AT LEAST a year. Seriously. Next penis I see...I'm gonna snap it in half. Girlfriend, I'm gonna be brutally honest here after reading this shit. You need to chill the fuck out, take a step back, and then take a closer look at the real picture here because I'm sorry, it's you who comes acrossed as the one who's fucked up! Seriously, you pushed this guy to the point of packing your shit, then having him beg you to stay. Then you were suprised that he didn't blow up your phone calling you. And your lame excuse about the pumpkin? Been there, done that, my friend. That was your excuse to go back and continue fucking with this guys head, hoping he'd kiss your ass some more. So then, last night you have "the talk." I call bullshit! That was just another attempt to get into his head and have him acting like a wet blanket. I'm sorry, but that's just way fucked up. I can't say you're a money grubbing whore, but I can say you're an attention whore, and a very immature one at that! This guy probably did love you, (Enough to want to marry you at one time if I remember correctly.) but, it sounds to me that you aren't mature enough to even know what love is, and he's realizing that, whether he wants to or not. No offense, but with the way you're acting and treating this shit, it's a good thing you only want a half a penis darlin', because you definitely aren't grown up enough, or mature enough to handle a whole one! Quit with your childish little games and grow the fuck up! The reason he may have e-mailed another girl, or is surfing around looking at what else is out there is probably because he's sadly realizing that your shit ain't worth the trouble and headache! And, quite honestly, if you continue on with your behavior, you may sadly start realizing the same thing about yourself. Just being real Unicornsforbreakfast, sorry...

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

BD, I sound a lot more calloused than I am when I'm pissed off. Make no mistake. I had absolutely no intentions of fucking with this prick's head. I wanted to work out our problems, get married, and pop out a cute little puppy.
I'm not suicidal. I don't have a constant prescription for xanax. I'm not getting off painkillers, and taking methadone, and drinking every fucking night, and bitching that I can't get a job because I have tater tots tattooed on my neck. I was there for him when no one else was. I helped him, when his own mother couldn't. I took his emotional abuse, and told myself he didn't mean it, because he had anxiety. I tried everything in my power to make him happy, because I couldn't be if he wasn't. You really have no idea.

[locachica73]

and you planned on marrying tator tot tattoo'd methadone xanax guy? oh i forgot, he was really really hot...

[gaypalmsprings]

BD, I sound a lot more calloused than I am when I'm pissed off. Make no mistake. I had absolutely no intentions of fucking with this prick's head. I wanted to work out our problems, get married, and pop out a cute little puppy.
I'm not suicidal. I don't have a constant prescription for xanax. I'm not getting off painkillers, and taking methadone, and drinking every fucking night, and bitching that I can't get a job because I have tater tots tattooed on my neck. I was there for him when no one else was. I helped him, when his own mother couldn't. I took his emotional abuse, and told myself he didn't mean it, because he had anxiety. I tried everything in my power to make him happy, because I couldn't be if he wasn't. You really have no idea.

We do have an idea. We are older than you & what you are going through is not new to us. You can't take care of someone else until you take of yourself. You can't make a gay boy straight. You can't make a boy a man. You can't be his mother & lover. Move on.

[marooko]

Understood how those things can get lost. Being alone is not easy in the initial stages. Keep yourself busy and use those that love you for support. If you go back to this dude again, don't write here and just go directly to Jerry Springer.

http://www.universohq.com/quadrinhos/2005/imagens/batmangay.jpg

thats fucking awesome, GPS.


GPS, you have an incredible gift.

you're spot on, Ivan. in both counts.

UFB, you're fucked up. whether he did wrong or not, you have no right looking through his personal shit. i would wish bad things upon you, but you'll obviously find a way to bring it upon yourself. have fun.

[dinosaurateme]

This one time, me and unicorns and the boy were hanging out. Me and unicorns went out to have a cigarette, and then the boy got all emo because and lame because we were 'ignoring him'. Then he started calling his mother asking for a ride home because he didnt want to feel ignored (we were smoking a cigarette! he could have joined.) Five minutes later he was like, 'omg omg i was just joking. omg, you thought i was serious. omg omg just joking. LOLOLOLOLOL. Geez u guyz take everything so seriously lolololol i'm so gay lololol"

So, yes he was a little crazy, and me and unicorns had the, 'wtf just happened' looks on our faces. I only met him once.

[marooko]

were you fucktards at band camp?

[locachica73]

God I am glad I am not in my 20's anymore.

[amyzzz]

Unicorns and Dinosaurs. my goodness.

[amyzzz]

were you fucktards at band camp?
:rotfl

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

Some of you guys are really fucking rude, and a little too fond of making judgements, and assumptions. I don't really give a fuck if that's what gets you out of bed in the morning. Just sayin'.

[shakermaker113]

he really has tater tots tattooed on his neck?

[amyzzz]

You ask for advice, people give you that advice, you don't take the advice, then you come back here to complain about what happened. Just sayin'.

[marooko]

you're reading someones "PERSONAL" email, posting it on a fucking message board for the world to see, and you got the nerve to call some of us rude?! although he doesnt sound all together himself, he doesnt sound like the source of all the problems either. now go revel in the bed you've made.

[gaypalmsprings]

were you fucktards at band camp?

http://ganjataz.com/general-bollocks/images/by-GT/forum-shitz/FBI-contact_us.jpg

[locachica73]

When you post your drama storie on the net you have to expect that people are will make judgements, and I do really think anyone could make any assumptions about the story as you posted it all over the net.

[BROKENDOLL]

Some of you guys are really fucking rude, and a little too fond of making judgements, and assumptions. I don't really give a fuck if that's what gets you out of bed in the morning. Just sayin'. When you open up your personal life like a book for all to see, and then add someone elses personal life in a web page as well...Just like with posting a picture....be ready to take the shit that's gonna be dished out. There's 2 sides to every story and even without the other side's story, yours isn't looking too good right now. Think about that.

[gaypalmsprings]

you might as well just post the boy's name & phone number

[marooko]

yeah, so we can call him and tell him what a bitch you are.

[gaypalmsprings]

yeah, so we can call him and tell him what a bitch you are.

LOLZ - as if he doesn't already know

[amyzzz]

The reading-the-email thing is very, very petty. Take a step back and get out of his life.

[marooko]

yeah, guess we can just agree.

[marooko]

The reading-the-email thing is very, very petty. Take a step back and get out of his life.

and take a look at your own. (hers, not yours , amyzzz)

[bullokz]

Crazy peepz in the internetz iz zcary.

[amyzzz]

Back to the ignore bucket for you marooko. :nono

[marooko]

WTF are you talking about amy? i said her life, not yours. jesus h. christ woman. i was agreeing she should take a step back and not only get out of his life, but take a look at hers.

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

you might as well just post the boy's name & phone number

I would if he had one.

[ivankay]

WTF are you talking about amy? i said her life, not yours. jesus h. christ woman. i was agreeing she should take a step back and not only get out of his life, but take a look at hers.

Yes Amy. He did write:

and take a look at your own. (hers, not yours , amyzzz)

[TommyboyUNM]

Crazy people attract crazy people. Doesn't sound like you're making good decisions right now and I have no sympathy for you, Unicorns.

[locachica73]

actually wasn't his name included in the email somewhere?

[ivankay]

I would if he had one.

He doesn't have a name or a phone number? He is strange.

[marooko]

thank you ivan.

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

Yeah, and you guys have never done anything petty in your whole fucking lives. Sure. Get back to sucking your own dicks.

[orbit]

did you hack his wow account yet?

[UnicornsForBreakfast]

He doesn't have a name or a phone number? He is strange.

Would you like his address? You can send him a post card.

[marooko]

never. no, kidding. i just didnt get mad when someone called me on it.

[amyzzz]

WTF are you talking about amy? i said her life, not yours. jesus h. christ woman. i was agreeing she should take a step back and not only get out of his life, but take a look at hers.Oops, I switched the people in your parenthetical note. haha.

[amyzzz]

Yeah, and you guys have never done anything petty in your whole fucking lives. Sure. Get back to sucking your own dicks.
Yeah, I've done a shitload of petty things in my life, mostly in my 20's, and I'm here to tell you it ain't worth it. :)

[locachica73]

Yeah, and you guys have never done anything petty in your whole fucking lives. Sure. Get back to sucking your own dicks.

Most people have done petty crazy shit in the name of "love". Except me of course, I am innocent of such behavior... (note the hint of sarcasm)

[TommyboyUNM]

Yeah, and you guys have never done anything petty in your whole fucking lives. Sure. Get back to sucking your own dicks.


I never got into any ex-girlfriend's email account, no. You should be running for the fucking hills and realize you dodged a bullet instead of acting crazy. You're only 20, why the fuck would you wanna settle for a complete douche and get married anyway?

[gaypalmsprings]

http://www.blackmere.com/images/100_forget.jpg

[locachica73]

Tommy, you forget, he was really really hot... crazy and hot always wins.

[gaypalmsprings]

and she was giving it away free

[bullokz]

I ate unicorns for breakfast.

[locachica73]

BBQ'd or Fried?

[TommyboyUNM]

Tommy, you forget, he was really really hot... crazy and hot always wins.


That's right. What was I thinking?! And I bet she can't make a clean break because she LOVES him. Takes more than just love for things to work.

[Yablonowitz]

Fuck the ring. I'm lucky my ex didn't want diamonds and carrots and all that shit. I purchased a nice saphire engagement ring. It was about $180 at JC Penny I think. I'm classy like that. She fucking loved it. Then we started planning all that wedding bullshit. All our money was combined from very early on anyway. So when the wedding rings were purchased she picked out some cool titanium rings and purchased those. I think it was a total of another $400 or something. Whatever. We broke up, I got my wedding ring. She kept hers and the engagement ring. Why the fuck would I want that shit back anyway? I would prefer a refund on all the financing I did for her family and the $27 spent at the sex shop and $137 on the hotel room from when she cheated on me while I was putting her kids to sleep.

....now if I could only go off like this in person instead of a random rant on a message board. Bitter indeed. :)

This is what happens when you try inter-species relationships.

[bullokz]

drunken grilled

[ivankay]

Would you like his address? You can send him a post card.

No thank you. He sounds like a kook.

Don't get oppressed by the judgement. It happens in public discussions like this. You sparked interests in you wellfare and it is a natural reaction for people following this to get a little tough on you when it appears you aren't as concerned for said welfare.

[bullokz]

This is what happens when you try inter-species relationships.

ahahaha

[TommyboyUNM]

No thank you. He sounds like a kook.

Don't get oppressed by the judgement. It happens in public discussions like this. You sparked interests in you wellfare and it is a natural reaction for people following this to get a little tough on you when it appears you aren't as concerned for said welfare.


ivankay is the voice of reason. Listen to him.

[locachica73]

That's right. What was I thinking?! And I bet she can't make a clean break because she LOVES him. Takes more than just love for things to work.

I can't say shit, I stayed with the father of my kids because "I LOVED HIM" when he was stealing money from me to support his habits. Although I did have his babies so it made it a little more difficult to make the break. This is the shit we do in the 20's. ugh.