Should I kick my brother out of my apartment?

[jgafs]

He's been with me since two weeks before Coachella (I paid for tix/hotel by the way) and he still does not have a job, he's broke and pretty much contributes nothing to my place cleaning wise. He's my bro but I feel he doesn't appreciate anything I've done for him. My back hurts from carrying him, but I'm the bad guy cause I want him to change his ways or leave. What should I do?

[Still-ill]

You're a bad brother.

[chairmenmeow47]

DEALBREAKER!

[TeamCoachellaHellYeah]

your brother sounds like a weak ass puto.

[Still-ill]

:lool

[Principal Onyx Blackman]

It would be one thing if he was at least making an EFFORT to help.

[Still-ill]

It would be one thing if he was at least making an EFFORT to help.

"Fuck you! That's it you're out on the streets. How dare you live with me and seem slightly un-appreciative, little brother!" :mad:

[greghead]

Is he actively looking for a job, or sitting around playing xbox and looking at imagefap all day? If it's the latter over the former, I say give him a week then boot him.

[JebusLives]

Not enough info. Times are tough - if he's having a legit hard time finding work, then so be it. If he's just being a lazy bitch, set a date for him to be employed by before you start charging rent. He'll leave on his own.

[Sleepingrock]

I agree with greg, if he is trying for a job, but tell him to help the fuck out !

[allyjoy]

You've known him his entire life. Is he a lazy fuck? If the answer is yes and he's straight, find him a girlfriend to leech off of. At the very least, she'll come over and do the cooking and cleaning... it's a win.

[gaypalmsprings]

Make him give you a blow job at least.

[canexplain]

family is family ..... so just trash him everyday , if that makes him get a job :), if it makes him move out :) ..... no one should live on the street cept those people that want to, but dont make it easy on him ...fuck dude, i have no clue who you are but if you needed shelter "mi casa" what ever that saying is ...... cr****

[jgafs]

Times are tough I agree but:
Gave him 'a week' two weeks ago after I found out that he didn't actually have unemployment benefits coming in which he told me he did have prior to moving out here. He says he's looking but how do I know, i'm busting my ass 50+ hours a week so he can enjoy my flatscreen, the beach (5 minute walk away) and my beach cruiser.
But he can't vacuum the fucking rug?

[canexplain]

Times are tough I agree but:
Gave him 'a week' two weeks ago after I found out that he didn't actually have unemployment benefits coming in which he told me he did have prior to moving out here. He says he's looking but how do I know, i'm busting my ass 50+ hours a week so he can enjoy my flatscreen, the beach (5 minute walk away) and my beach cruiser.
But he can't vacuum the fucking rug?

can i move in with you lol ...i am a good surfer and i miss the beach, i have all the other stuff.. cr****

[gaypalmsprings]

I hate vacuuming. Can I move it for a couple weeks? At least I'd give you a blow job. Ha.

[**NaNcY**]

i suggest u talk to ur bro. lay it all out. tell him he can only stay if he starts helping out. the least he can do is clean and cook if he is not helping financially. its not fair to u! tell him that if things dont change thn he has to go. its kinda hard to be tough on those we lov but sometimes we hav to do it. there are too many times whn we think we are being helpful but are making things worse... it happened to me.

[Principal Onyx Blackman]

"Fuck you! That's it you're out on the streets. How dare you live with me and seem slightly un-appreciative, little brother!" :mad:

Yeah. His little brother shouldn't get a job. Shouldn't contribute in any way. Everything should be given to him on a fucking platter.

[unitedwestand]

the time machine, GPS, the time machine and we will be there together! and supre will have to suck our balls all night

[Still-ill]

Yeah. His little brother shouldn't get a job. Shouldn't contribute in any way. Everything should be given to him on a fucking platter.

thank you for agreeing. ;)

[gaypalmsprings]

the time machine, GPS, the time machine and we will be there together! and supre will have to suck our balls all night

I agree.

[Sleepingrock]

You've known him his entire life. Is he a lazy fuck? If the answer is yes and he's straight, find him a girlfriend to leech off of. At the very least, she'll come over and do the cooking and cleaning... it's a win.

Isn't that mildly sexist Ally?? I would never expect it!!!!!!!!

[hendrixfan143]

Well. I wouldn't be mad at your brother for not having a job because nobody can get jobs right now, but i would tell him that if he wants to live in my house he has to clean and do things to help out.

[cansei de ser sexme]

Make him your bitch. This would be much more attractive of course if he was your older brother, but hey, either way.

[gaypalmsprings]

Make him your bitch. This would be much more attractive of course if he was your older brother, but hey, either way.

http://www.313merch.com/big_images/smack_bitch.jpg

[prettydirtything]

No. You deserve each other.

[mattpach]

Set a date and tell him that if he doesn't have his shit together by then he's on his own.

[fatbastard]

I would never kick my brother/sister out. They're my family.

[SFChrissy]

You didn't give birth to him so you sure as fuck aren't his mother...you are his brother so be honest with him and share your frustration, find a way to relieve yourself without having to kick him out but at the same time giving him the opportunity to help...i bet it would be nice if you came home to a nice cooked dinner and a clean kitchen after working 10hr day...

good luck...keep in mind what fatbastard mentions he is your family and brothers/sisters should always be there for one another...ALWAYS!!! That's at least what I'm teaching my little boys seeing how I'm an only child...

[JustSteve]

i bet it would be nice if you came home to a nice cooked dinner and a clean kitchen after working 10hr day...

they're guys, a bag of taco bell would probably suffice.

[SFChrissy]

they're guys, a bag of taco bell would probably suffice.Haaa!!! :) seeing how his bro is a brokeass might as well put what his mama taught him to use...

[jgafs]

Anyone got a room for rent in LA?

[SFChrissy]

maybe you guys should just get it over with and throw some blows, have a time out and then hug 'n shake hands!!!

[bremex]

My brother is 18, without a job. I pay for his phone and all the concerts/movies he goes to so he can concentrate in his music career.

When he can he surprises me by paying bills, the insurance, tickets, etc.

I have a fair job and he doesn't, best thing I can do is help him when I can.

He's my best drinking, music, smoking and music partner. He's graduating in 2 weeks and I bought him this:

http://www.daveallenblues.com/images/guitars/es-345-sg802-z.jpg

(he has no idea)


Every sibling is different. I adore mines so I don't know how you get along with him. I would say wait....

[SFChrissy]

I hope my boys love each other like tha!!!

[BROKENDOLL]

My brother is 18, without a job. I pay for his phone and all the concerts/movies he goes to so he can concentrate in his music career.

When he can he surprises me by paying bills, the insurance, tickets, etc.

I have a fair job and he doesn't, best thing I can do is help him when I can.

He's my best drinking, music, smoking and music partner. He's graduating in 2 weeks and I bought him this:

http://www.daveallenblues.com/images/guitars/es-345-sg802-z.jpg

(he has no idea)


Every sibling is different. I adore mines so I don't know how you get along with him. I would say wait.... My brother and I haven't spoken in afew years. Moments ago I put myself up for sibling adoption...and I play guitar. :winkiss

[marooko]

Make him give you a blow job at least.

winner.

ass, cash, or clean.

[bremex]

My brother and I haven't spoken in afew years. Moments ago I put myself up for sibling adoption...and I play guitar. :winkiss

I just got for my brother a job interview in guitar center :D

[jgafs]

UPDATE:

Bro is doing well!

I did kick him out that night when I first placed the poll.
It was a rough week or so, but within 10 days, he had a place to live in LA and got a gig as an asst. manager at a Sprint store. I guess we all need a kick in the balls every now and again...

[Dr. Lufs-al-ot]

i call kicking you in the balls

[jgafs]

i've had my share...maybe that's why i'm fucking great.

[marooko]

glad things worked out.

[amyzzz]

That's cool that your bro is OK. Good for you for kicking him out.